For those who said that they hate bitching and people who are bitching about others, just be honest with yourself. Don't you ever bitching about anyone else? Seriously? Then what are you?
C'mon guys, we're human. We can't help ourselves from having issues with people, even with our best friends. Reality speaking, nobody can handle the feeling of annoyance or hatred for a long time if they want to keep it to themselves. Every once in a while, we gotta do what we gotta do.
So what do we do? We spill, we tell people, just to make a justification. Was it us who cause the problem, or was it others? We look for our best friends and tell them what we feel and if the issues is about our best friends, we either spill it to the other best friends or to our close family member.
Bitching is flexible, it can be about anyone, doing it with anyone (as long as the person is close to us and highly trusted) and about anything. You decide!
And you know who is the bitchiest bitch out of this bitching thing? The one you've been bitching with, and go to the person who was being bitched and told the person what you've been bitching about the person. The bitch queen!
Declaring that bitching is a sin isn't making you a saint. Hating person who's been bitching isn't gonna make you a saint. A realist will only think that you're a pretender. Never judge people for things that we know everybody is doing it, even if it is wrong. First thing you need to ask, if you think it's wrong, why do it?
People often think that they do it for reasons, that they are in a different situation and people cannot simply generalized it. Truth is, there is no different situation, only different dimension. Only because you see it from different dimension doesn't mean you're not doing it.
I'm not mad at people who think (or at least used to think) that bitching is wrong. It is wrong. It's a sin for the record! Just at least don't pretend that you're not doing it, and being judgmental on people who are doing it. As long as you're not making or adding up stories about it, bitching is actually doesn't looks that bad.
And if telling your problem to other people that you trust is called bitching, then what's the difference with a counselling session, which is also about telling our problem to the person that we trust? And you're gonna say that too is a different situation, not a different dimension?
Think again. I'll rest my case here for you to ponder. G'day!
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